He could have a low sex drive, but his adventure on the internet after marriage suggests we look for other answers. What’s more likely is that he has developed tried and proven ways to masturbate that he prefers over making love to you. Masturbation is simple and predictable – no muss no fuss. If his masturbation satisfies his sexual need, it could account for his reluctance to make getbride.org ficar no website love to you.
You may also have made love for hours at a time
Over the years I have come to the conclusion that married couples should try to avoid sexual experiences outside each other’s company. My reasoning is that sex is so enjoyable that the pleasure people receive from it should not be squandered. To review my “Love Bank” concept, whenever you have pleasure in each other’s company, you deposit love units in each other’s Love Banks, thereby increasing your feeling of romantic love for each other. If you limit your sexual experiences to times you are together (especially if they are often), the feeling of love will be enhanced.
On the other hand, if you have sexual experiences with others, even over the internet where it is essentially a fantasy, you build feelings of love toward those people instead of your spouse. (more…)